Poll/Survey: In your opinion does the person who breaks up with somebody have the right to feel hurt?

When the person they broke up with has moved on as they had no choice but to move on being as the person who broke up with them did so in a way that was mean spirited and uncaring and they didn’t care or think about what the person was going through before being told that they were breaking up with them? Or does that person have no right at all to feel hurt about the person they broke up with moving on?

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16 Responses to “Poll/Survey: In your opinion does the person who breaks up with somebody have the right to feel hurt?”

  1. No not at all, its almost like I don’t want you but I don’t want anyone else to have you which is selfish they are not looking out for your happiness

  2. i guess

    answer trhis please

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080817102445AAMnfNI

  3. tryingtoescapemyself on July 7th, 2010 at 7:04 pm

    they absolutely have a right to feel hurt. both people contribute to a relationship and no matter who breaks up with who, both people are losing something they cherished, if even for a little while.

  4. Haley loves her contacts on July 7th, 2010 at 7:09 pm

    I don’t think they do…they are the one causing the hurt, not someone hurting them…The only thing I could understand them feeling would be guilt.

  5. Yes

  6. NO! to me it’s dumb, but I guess that’s how it goes.

  7. Yes, just because things don’t work out don’t mean you don’t care

  8. Heatherrrrrrrr on July 7th, 2010 at 8:11 pm

    I broke up with someone I dated for 2 years. He was very nice but as time went on I knew he wasn’t the one for me. It hurt me to hurt him. We both moved on and got over it and have wonderful lives with other people.

  9. I dont really understand your additional info, but to answer your question of course the person who breaks up feel hurt too.. it’s just inevitable…

  10. nope

  11. Yes they do have the right to feel hurt, after i broke up in my longest relationship, i then felt so bad, it took me a week to get him back, and now since it was the 6th time his mom wont let him date me, sad i know, but I’m not going to give up on him

  12. I think they do have a right to feel upset. I was devastated when I broke up with my boyfriend. I realised that we couldn’t be together anymore and it was really upsetting… we’re back together now but it felt as though he was moving on with his life and that can be quite an upsetting thing to witness. I guess I envisioned him moping around and being miserable just like me, but he didn’t.

  13. maybe the person that did the breaking-up regrets their decision or didn’t think that the other person would move on as quickly as they did. but for the most part, no i don’t think they should feel hurt. because i would never break-up with someone unless i was sure i didn’t want to be with them. it isn’t a decision to make in the heat of the moment. lol, Heat of the moment…i’m lame, i know

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    No, that person has no right to feel hurt.

  15. SQUIRTS MCPUDDLES on July 8th, 2010 at 12:14 am

    I think they do, if the other person was not being honest and just using them for their own selfish reasons.

  16. no matter what the break up reason was, everyone involved has a right to feel their own pain, regardless. unfortunately there is always pain!?

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